A Mother’s Love Is Complicated and Beautiful
Motherhood changes you. In the months leading up to and directly after the birth of our first child I have seen my wife become a mother to a precious baby boy. She is still the women I fell in love with, but there is an added grace, strength and beauty that motherhood has given her. It is simply amazing to me. Seeing this change in her deepened my understanding of the stories shared in Mamma Love. These stories are powerful, sobering and encouraging all at once.
Several months ago, around Mother’s Day last year I found out about the book from various media outlets covering her Kickstarter campaign. There was a publishing deal that didn’t work out and almost caused the book to not be produced. The Kickstarter campaign allowed Ali to get the book printed independently. Seeing the book printed was the culmination of a 12 years journey in putting this masterpiece together.
The bond between a mother and her child is complicated and deep. There are highs and lows that can’t be fully described in words. Images can capture so much more. When these powerful images of motherhood and words are assembled so well that you forget where you are when reading about this special relationship you know you’ve been reading Momma Love: How The Mother Half Lives by Ali Smith.
“Mamma Love isn’t only about the love a mother shows. It’s about the love she is shown, by herself and the world around her.” – Ali Smith
Ali Smith masterfully assembles text and striking imagery to share various aspects of motherhood. Not just the highlights and picture perfect moments that culture and society say motherhood should be either. She shares the struggles and daily trials of motherhood too. Motherhood is strength and vulnerability. It is love and pain.
Some of the stories shared in Momma Love include:
- Kitty Stillufsen, who proudly chose to have a child with her two gay best friends rather than settling for a “baby daddy”
- Amy Ryan, an Oscar winning actress sharing about what motherhood is like in Hollywood
- Patrina Felts, an African-American woman trying to raise 2 adoptive sons of different races equally in a world of inequality
- Sophie Currier, whose Supreme Court victory over her right to breastfeed changed laws in the workplace
- Diana Colbert, determined to parent her two-year-old well during her own battle with a terminal illness
Looking for a holiday gift idea for a mother in your life? This book is it!