Category: Lessons Learned

May 31
Many Community Colleges Don’t Know How to Support Adult Students

Community colleges like College of DuPage in Glen Ellen, IL, are poorly prepared to support adult students. I know, because I was a student there part-time for almost 10 years before finally earning my degree. Why did it take so long? Let me tell you. I began my college journey at College of DuPage, a […]

May 26
A Life Well Lived: A Tribute to My Father

My dad, Robert “Bob” Gratcyk, died on May 17, 2021. Thankfully, I was able to be with him for the last several hours of his life. He couldn’t speak. He had trouble breathing. His focus wasn’t there much of the time, but there were hints that he recognized me in his face a few times. […]

Mar 18
That Time I Almost Ruined Our Family’s Tax Refund As A 5th Grader

Okay, Bob, You have two options here: Freakout and possibly ruin your son's future in computers OR give him a chance to prove himself (even though he probably just trashed your tax-refund purchase.)

Jun 08
30 Days of Activities At Home With The Kids [Day Twenty Eight]

CNN's Van Jones and Erica Hill partner with "Sesame Street" for Coming Together: Standing Up to Racism, a town hall for kids and families. Watch the town hall in its entirety on CNN.com. There is no need for a cable subscription to view the special.

Feb 12
Office Rat to Stay at Home Dad

I needed my creativity through freelancing in order to stay motivated... I was miserable at that job.

Feb 10
Moments

I have moments in my life that feel, very suddenly, as if I’m looking back or reliving a memory long passed.

Jun 19
Have You Taken the Paternity Leave Pledge?

DADS & MOMS: This Father’s Day, I was proud to partner with Dove Men+Care and take the #PaternityLeavePledge. I wasn’t offered Paternity Leave when we had our first, so I took two weeks earned vacation time. It made all the difference in starting off parenthood with a strong bond with my small growing family. Now we can goof-off and have fun […]

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Nov 07
Did You Kiss Dating Goodbye?

I read "I Kissed Dating Goodbye" when I was young & vulnerable. It caused a lot of harm in my life.

Jul 23
I’ve Never Dad-ed so Hard

My one year old had enjoyed his meal thoroughly. That odd mix of apple sauce, home-made guacamole, mac & cheese, water, milk, and grilled chicken was all over him. It was also all over the floor, counter and wall near him. It was one of those messes that makes a caregiver sigh, but also smile. […]

Jun 12
Fatherhood Can Be A Serious Balancing Act On A Daily Basis

Fatherhood is a balancing act unlike anything else I’ve ever done. It is hard for me to believe that I’ve been doing it for over four years now.