Category: Lessons Learned

Jan 26
5 Reasons It’s Hard for Me to Make Friends

My experience of making friends in one’s thirties tells me that it is nearly impossible. Work, kids and general adult responsibilities get in the way of friendship building for me everyday. The close friendships that I have now were made in my twenties or my teens. I’ve made many acquaintances since I turned thirty a few years ago, but […]

May 26
The Need to Raise An Empathetic Child

The world is a rough place. People who should be able to get along often don't get along at all. Bosses often look out for what is best for themselves and take advantage of their subordinates. Gun owners oppose any talk of reasonable regulations based off of the empty argument of "freedom." These things and countless more cause unnecessary pain and suffering to others.

Apr 07
Six Ways I’ve Lowered My Standards Since Becoming A Dad

I swore it would never happen. I didn't have a clue. The rules I had set up for myself in my pre-child world didn't stand a chance once I became a dad. Here are six ways I've changed my standards since becoming one.

  • Food
Dec 30
The Scariest Moments I’ve Ever Had As A Father

Everything was happening in slow motion. All the sounds around us were muffled. The water coming out of the faucet. My son's body twitching and then going limp. His clenched jaw and me splashing that cold water on his body. I kept saying "I love you son, breath. Breath. Please breath!"

Dec 23
8 Tips For Calming A Fussy Baby

Here are a few things I found to help our fussy little guy calm down when he wasn't an adorable sleeping baby.

  • Baby
Sep 18
Co-Sleeping With A Toddler (And a Tuft & Needle Mattress Giveaway!)

Disclosure: I received a product for review from Tuft & Needle in exchange for the creation and sharing of this post. Sleep is important. I mean seriously important. If you had told me how colossally my sleep schedule would be affected once I became a father before we had our kid I would have called […]

  • Baby
Aug 13
And Then My Wife Says, “Could That Have Been What Caused The Flat Tire?”

Just as we started our journey down the highway to a family movie night at the grandparents yesterday we heard a loud bang, the car shook a little and our tire pressure light flashed on. My wife's first words were "What was that? What did you hit?" I knew it was not good.

Jan 05
Stuck Inside Because of the Weather? Here Are Eight Creative Things You Can Do With The Kids Indoors

Large parts of the US are under a winter weather advisory with roads & schools closed this week. That means your kids are stuck at home with you and they are going to get stir crazy. Here are a few ideas on activities you can do with your kids to help pass the time quickly […]

Nov 11
She Said What About My 7 Month Old?

UPDATED – April 2015. See note at the end of the article to see what CVS did once corporate found out what happened.  We’ve been trying to get out of the house to get Mr. Dude’s passport photos taken for months. We’ve had busy weekends that didn’t allow us time to stop in the local […]

Aug 14
Going to the Drive-In

Going to the movies with a baby can be a herculean task to say the least. One can only hope that he/she will stay asleep or be amused enough not to cry during the showing. Our four month old has not yet developed enough self control to stay occupied in a movie theater setting. Or […]